Gents, I post this because It's a matter of time before I deliver my first demonstrational lecture on the break-down of the most EFFECTIVE Dance-Game, known to our kind. Too many "great" PUA's have labeled this a "Danger-Zone"... Tssk Tssk. Until now, This secret has been kept between my original crew members, Spike, Jaken, Quipster, and myself.
So here's giving credit where credit is due. Jaken is an amazing dancer. Way better than I can claim to be. Spike was his original wing... Years ago. Spike introduced me to club game and then brought me up to speed, in 2006. I learned how to dance with the encouragement of Spike, and by watching Jaken. They are the "Old Crew".
Now first off, completely eliminate the thought from your mind that in order to be successful @ dance game, you have to be the best dancer... GET RID OF IT. To be successful @ dance game all you need to do, is give your dance partner a good time... simple enough, huh? In-fact all you need is that mind-set. Take her to the dance floor and say in your mind "try to keep your shoes on!". I've dropped girls and/or fallen on them countless times, and still managed to seal the deal. If she's having a good time, then you can both laugh off nearly any incident! We'll get to the "don'ts" in a minute, but first i need to show you how easy the "do's" are.
Finding the right Dance partner is important, so lets define some behaviors that you can spot in an HB that will be susceptible to your invite.
It's all about BL here, so look for girls that:
1. are standing in a group, who aren't being engaged by those near them. Chances are they're feeling antsy and will probably respond better to dancing than talking. It's important to make sure that their body language is open and inviting, not closed off or showing the desire to be left alone. A good test would be to attempt eye-contact and smile. if she smiles back then she'll be more susceptible to your approach!
2. Have a group of friends that are equally as hot or good looking. This will help ensure that you will have some freedom with your target, since the girls will be less likely to get jealous and pull her away. Plus it's a lot easier to flirt with and disarm them.
Make sure you can dictate between a socialite, and a drunk girl. STAY AWAY from the drunk girls. Running dance game on them can be dangerous. You will look like a predator in her friends eyes and the eyes of other girls watching you pursue her. Also, her stumbling and tripping reflects badly upon you. Like I said It's dangerous. I once danced with a chick who was apparently a lot more intoxicated than I gave her credit for. I back turned her and she fell on her ass, and her glass shattered into a million pieces. As, I turned around and leaned over to hoist her up, my boot slipped on her spilled drink and I flew palm-first onto bits of her shattered glass. I spent the rest of the night digging glass outta my hand and changing out the paper towels that subbed as a bandage. Instant loss of value!!!
When you find the right girl and make your way over to her, keep a few things in mind. First, make sure you gauge her energy level. You don't want to come on too weak or too strong. Secondly, make sure that you NEVER, EVER, EVERRR approach her from behind without first making acknowledged eye contact! Girls are so used to being approached from behind by creepers and Douchebags, that it is instinctual that they freak out! Make no mistake, I have girlfriends that freak out when I come up behind them in class or the coffee shop. They watch too many Lifetime shows... Jus don't do it!
Okay, back to the approach. here are a few openers.
1: the across the floor eye-contact- Basically you see her looking @ you so you make EC and hold it as you smile and approach. Walk in a semi-circle motion to her side and reach out to take her hand. Immediately spin her and begin dancing
2:The stare down:(works better if she is already dancing) You simply walk straight up to her and stare her down until she acknowledges you. keep a straight face until she begins to feel silly or look away then smile and take her hand to dance with her. When you are staring her down you want to be about 1-2ft from her face. Almost inescapable!
3. Salt & pepper: This is actually my second favorite way to open. And completely simple too. Walk in between her and her girlfriends, hold your elbows out and your hands up and move the like your pouring salt and pepper on something. Now jus keep backing up on them. If you get them to take a step or two back and your ass is against their pelvis or stomach then your doing it 100% correct. They normally giggle and will immediately eye code their friends to see if ur "okay, since they cant see your expression. make sure you're smiling or smirking and not attempting to make eye contact with them or seek validation from them. Jus' plow and break into your routine.
Make sure you are outcome independent, and not looking for validation! Sometimes i'm the worst dancer ever. My feet won't move right, or or Im constantly tripping, but the smile and charisma go a long way! Try searching for dance videos on youtube. this one is my favorite "charleston vs. jumpstyle"!
Another Day 2
15 years ago
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