Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Flirtation as an Art

My dearest friend Elation, this one's for you.

Flirtation is the art of subtlely spinning sexuality into your conversation. While there is such a thing as verbal flirtation, use of BL to flirt is far more effective. Flirtation is a powerful tool that can make or break a close. You must learn the how, the when and the why of flirting in order to dominate a social situation or a venue, so let me break it down for you.
There are many types of flirtation that can be displayed in a number of ways. The first lesson you learn here is how to harness and utilize the infamous "Bedroom Eyes". Bedroom eyes come naturally when you find yourself completely submerged in a romantic scenario. imagine if you will: your on the phone with, or in the arms of your target. Your hands are holding hers and your fingers are caressing hers. you are talking deeply with her. Your words are soft and her scent has completely aroused and overcome you. Your lids begin to droop and your your cheeks feel warm. These are bedroom eyes. They are a powerful tool of seduction. Get familiar with them. Practice in front of your mirror or while you are driving down the road.
The next step is to formulate the perfect smile. This smile is similar to the one that you would wear if every girl in the bar was stealing glances at you. It resembles the smile that would come naturally if you had a secret that you werent supposed to tell the person in front of you, but you might if they meet specific demands. Find out which one this is and anchor it so you can pull it out of your sleeve at a moments notice. This smile is secret weapon number two.

One more secret tool is the art of the underlying meaning. Simply, this is when you take a statement out of it's original context and apply a sexual meaning to it ie: "I'm confused" this statement could dictate that a person isn't sure of what's going on. If an HB makes that statement then, to insinuate it's underlying meaning you can retort:" i bet you are". Give your flirtatious smile and you have just established a sexual vibe.
So, when is it okay to flirt? Always!!!! In fact my ability to entice everyone in my social circle is based on my power to flirt effectively. I wink at everyone in the same manner yet it subcommunicates what I want it to to each individual person. I always smile when im talking to someone I am meeting for the first time. I've been told that my eyes make me look like I am up to mischief. The whole image put together displays a playful guy who knows how to have fun and the mere essence of child-likeness itself is captivating and seductive. I flirt heavily with girls I have no interest in as it builds a team of women who display pre-selection for me through social proof. I flirt more subtlely with girls I do have an interest in and withold the good stuff until in comfort or rapport.
If i am dancing with one girl on the dance floor then I am flirting with everyone I make eye contact with while doing so. If I am having some girl force rapport on me( the ones i have no interest in who have taken my flirting to heart) then while she talks i pretend to listen but position myself where I can look at other girls and scan the room. If I am in rapport with a target then I generally turn my BL more towards her. I reward her with flirting and kino once she has amazed me, but not until then.
If someone is talking and i don't have a response or I dont care and am having the interaction specifically to tool them, then I will give them the wink over and over or a positive response with my infamous smile. You'll be surprised how far flirting will get you but you'll also be surprised how it could fuck you if not used correctly.

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