THE SCREENING PROCESS

PART ONE: THE FOUNDATION WORK FOR THE MLTR


As I begin to venture into deep rapport with the girl for the first time I find it necessary to express my views on relationships straight-up. I begin with a pre-selection thread and make it a point to attest to the traits of prior LTR’s and gf’s that I despised.

Ie: “so how do most of your relationships go? What are you looking for at this point in your life? I just weened my way out of a six-month relationship and there is no way I will engage myself in another. Don’t get me wrong, I love being able to connect with a partner but seeing them more than 2-3 times a week or having her always demand that I be on the phone with her, at this point in my life, is ridiculous. I’m tied up with school right now as well as my work and another side-business that I run. I really need to use my time effectively and I am looking for girls that can respect that and support me and my goals. I also can’t stand the idea of monogamy and I am always dating. In my relationships I like to connect with the other person on a deep level and every minute is an adventure. When you’re with me its our time and I’ll do my best to make it as exciting as possible. What about you?”

Because girls are emotional and normally have a lot of pride they will not verbally agree with you. In fact I take everything a girl says lightly when they are not in the state they are in when I engage the little girl inside of them. Any response that a girl gives me in a disagreeable fashion, I accept as something they felt had to be said and I spend no more time dwelling on it.
After the screening, if she allows me to get to know her better and carry on rapport, I accept it to mean that she has heard what I said and accepts it. Especially, if there is a day two. Keep in mind that if at any point later in your relationship she attempts to push for more in terms of a monogamy, you have already expressed your opinions on the subject to her and you need to make sure she knows that you don’t share her views and you will not hold her back from seeking what she wants elsewhere.
If a girl changes her mind later you can not stop her. Women have a biological clock that is always ticking and has been since they hit puberty at the age of eleven and with that comes the urge for a greater sense of security and the instinct to reproduce. Attempting to manipulate this can do serious emotional damage. Besides PUAdom generally allows you to find another girl you can connect to with no problems.