Platonic or Promiscuos Intentions: DRAWING THE LINE

A recurring question guys ask me is: "How do you create a pivot? Should I abstain from sex with my pivot? Does that ruin the relationship if I do have sex with her?" This is a very iffy topic so let me answer the questions and explain my theories.
Q: Should you abstain from sexing up your pivot? A: learn to read the situation.
Do not sex your pivot before actually getting her used to doing her duties. Take her out with you lay down the rules and tell her what is expected and talk with her as if she were just a cool guy with boobs. This will accustom her to your views and beliefs regarding relationships and will assist in implanting the idea in her head that you are not looking for a serious/ monogamous relationship. Once she has grown accustomed to this she will often still pursue sex with you and it is understood that she must continue to uphold the duties that she was signed on to accomplish. Learn to calibrate the girls you choose for a pivot and remember that she is your/ a new wing. Be as honest with her as you would your closest friends and the vibe will be solid enough to withstand the trials that sexuality might place on a normal relationship.
Remember do not sex her before she knows her role. This could be detrimental. If you tell her that you want her to help you pick up girls and that there is no sex involved and then you have sex with her before she pivots, then it appears as if you manipulated her to get her in bed and she either now sees you as deceptive or as the next guy she will invest in emotionally. Neither of those are that great!

Another thing you will need to establish before you can create pivots successfully is a strong identity with yourself and a strong comfort with your own replication value. I use to have a problem when it came to creating pivots. The problem was that even though I knew I wanted to make a girl my pivot I couldnt stop thinking about how i wanted to sex her. The problem wears its self out in time. I became comfortable with the fact that I knew I was going to always be able to find a sexual partner thus I did not have to have sexual relations with all my girl-friends. If you want to have sex with her then make her your target. Do not beat around the bush by trying to put her in the pivot catergory if you want to sleep with her. This only confuses your game-plan and elicits insecurities through mis-calibrated actions.