THE SCREENING PROCESS

PART TWO: LOGISTICS


Alright So I have walked you through laying bricks in the path of MLTRs, now, lets talk about executing a successful venue change.

Although I truly value the girls I connect with and thoroughly enjoy aspects of the relationship other than sex, I am not opposed to the SNL. In fact I am not the least bit angry if it doesn't work out. The first thing you have to do is get a feel for the logistics. Is she with a friend? If so, how many? Who drove? did you bring your wing? Did your wing drive? Where does she live? Where is she staying the night? Where does she live in relation to you, and the venue? You also have to take into account the emotional state of her friends and learn to lead and direct them also.

Generally I will ask these questions sporadically and I will waste no time. However since i am not fully reliant on the SNL I usually only care to ask Where(what city) she lives. This is important because once you have established, and are comfortable with your replication value, you will not want to drive more than 20-30 minutes to meet her or for a late-night call or whatever. My first LTR in the game lived over an hour away. Though she was a sweet girl who I cared about, A major factor in the loss of interest was the driving distance. With this in mind decide what is an appropriate distance for you and pursue that. If you meet a girl who lives further don't be rude and end the interaction, #-close and invite her out with your social circle when she is in town, then find a more feasable target.

I will also inquire as to whether she has her own car or not. As I said I am in to building meaningful relations with girls so i demand that they have their own car in order to help balance out the expenses of driving. I am currently involved with one girl who is extremely hot and only lives 15 miles away. I am unsatisfied with the fact that she doesn't have a car because driving 15 miles in the city is equivelant to driving 30 miles.

The more you know about logistics earlier on the more time you will have to begin to piece together a successful bounce. The only thing standing in your way of your master plan once you have it devised is the friends.

If a girl has friends with her she either has been great friends with them a while or she tooled them strictly for the purpose of going out and feeling safe. Regardless, she care about their opinions and their judgements, so she will not ditch them to hang out with you without their approval. You must befriend/ disarm the obstacles before you isolate for rapport.

Methods I use to befriend, include dancing with, and on, all of them. If dancing isn't entailed at the venue then I will spend 10-30 minutes engaging the whole group. Avoid the 2-set if you plan on hitting the SNL, though I have often had girls meet up with me after they drop their friends off. Generally it is impossible to isolate either member of the 2-set unless you have an awesome wing. It takes an average of 4-10 hours to lay a target so be sure you spend your time wisely figuring out the logistics and dealing with obstacles.

If you have come to acknowledge that logistics could be tricky due to the direction she is headed when she leaves the venue, bounce to a venue that is closer to your home. Often I will ween them in the direction of my house one venue at a time in order to gain a positive response when I offer my house as a venue.

Secure the venue change by either riding with or allowing your wing to ride with the set. This keeps their minds occupied and they are less likely to change their minds. If they do change their minds then just hope you see your wing again :)